I don't know jazz about programming, so I'll have to give you the less technical advice of just slowing down.
You want to work on three different (but at the same time interlinked) games at once. And you want to do it on three different engines (you mentioned before one's on XP and the other on VX right?).
I'm sorry but it just seems unrealistic that one would ever get finished. And if any were, it would take infinitely longer because you've divided your time between learning how to proficiently use two other engines and working on two other projects.