QUOTE (Stonerman @ Nov 22 2012, 01:41 AM)
Here's the thing. When in a relationship with someone, generally you'll(or I will, don't know you on a personal level) say "That's my girlfriend" and things of that nature. The relationship is the possessive, not the person. The "She is your's" comment isn't saying "That's your property bro" its saying "She is yours to be in a relationship with." That's the key here.
It's wierd, I see it as being the opposite - genuinly you gotta understand that no one is yours.
It's one of the side effects of our consumerist lifestyle.
we are under the broken belief that you can some how take love, that you can some how get love, keep it hold it.
You cannot. It's what makes it unique (and similar to hate)
You can only GIVE love.
and even when you give it to someone, they cannot recieve it. It is selfless, when it is real.
I wouldn't mind an update on the situation