Lonesome Times Options

[Strawberry]

I am seeking friendship.

Why? Because I simply feel lonely. It would be nice to have people chat with and play games with.

I've been very depressed lately - nearly to the point where i wanted to off myself (hence my ex-fiance's reason for wanting to kick me out). Seeing him with his new girlfriend, just makes me realize how much of a screw up I can be, such as ruining relationships with my crazy emotions. I want someone special eventually, yes, for now I just want friends.

So how can you reach me?

I am on Skype nearly all day. You do not need a mic or camera to chat with me. You can simply IM me. DX I don't really use MSN or anything else. I know, sad. :|

My Skype: fuzzyredscarf - please tell me who you are if you wish to add me

I am also seeking a gamer buddy.

I may not have a whole bunch, but here are the multiplayer games I own:

Worms Armageddon
Heroes of Might and Magic III
Baldur's Gate
Doom II

I can also play simple MMORPGs.

[markchapman10]

Stick to the forums, I'm always lurking around. and it lso gets lonely so having someone to lurke the forums with would be nice, lol.

Please do not quote the first post...especially when it's above you! Use the Post Reply button. not the Reply button, (there is a difference ) Jonnie19

[Strawberry]

Yeah... Not much of a forum poster anymore..

Also, why did you quote the first post, when it was directly above yours? O___oa

[Lato]

Seeing my EX with her new boyfriend screwed me up for a long time, breakups are always hard no matter what the reason, ppl can be cold and everyone needs friends. We may not alway agree but I don't like to see or hear about anyone suffering, we all need help through the had times life brings us.

There are some really good people on this site to talk to, and I am always around if you need someone to talk to. A good soldier never abandons those in trouble

[Vexus]

Facebook could be a good start to get some new friends or to catch up with friends you barely see anymore.

There are also many games you can try and meet new people.

Don't lose hope everyone gets lonely sometimes.

[markchapman10]

Yeah... Not much of a forum poster anymore..

Also, why did you quote the first post, when it was directly above yours? O___oa

Thats just how I reply?

[Jonnie19]

Yeah... Not much of a forum poster anymore..

Also, why did you quote the first post, when it was directly above yours? O___oa

Thats just how I reply?

Well please don't reply that way, unless the post is little(such as this one), you have no reason to do this! Now can we please get back to the topic. If you have a problem or want me to explain it further PM me.

[Strawberry]

Thank you! I'm glad you guys are there for me!

[Magical_RuNE_Kni...]

I am seeking friendship.

Why? Because I simply feel lonely. It would be nice to have people chat with and play games with.

I've been very depressed lately - nearly to the point where i wanted to off myself (hence my ex-fiance's reason for wanting to kick me out). Seeing him with his new girlfriend, just makes me realize how much of a screw up I can be, such as ruining relationships with my crazy emotions. I want someone special eventually, yes, for now I just want friends.

So how can you reach me?

I am on Skype nearly all day. You do not need a mic or camera to chat with me. You can simply IM me. DX I don't really use MSN or anything else. I know, sad. :|

My Skype: fuzzyredscarf - please tell me who you are if you wish to add me

I am also seeking a gamer buddy.

I can also play simple MMORPGs.

Aw, i think a lot of people are pretty lonely nowadays actually. i hope that that already gives u hope, i know some people who i never would've thought had things like SA, for example.

If it also gives you hope, i myself used to have depression. Its something that takes awhile to get over, but know you can beat it, and know it's just like another challenge you've overcome in your life; like the challenge of failing an assignment, or the challenge of getting in a fight with someone you care about. Only this time, life chose it in a different form, and this is the form you're gonna have to go through. This is the form you're gonna have to fight through and prove that you are damn sick of feeling this way.
: )

I am sure it wasn't wholly your fault btw. I'm honestly very surprised that he wanted to kick you out because of something like that, without offering to help you nonetheless.


i'm not on Skype very much at all, but mine's " Krazy.bread ".
Feel free to add me, and have no fear, i don't use MSN at all anymore. Personally, i think it is a little tacky. : p
i dont have Facebook or anything like that, either. But it's cool being unique. ; ))

i would love to play an MMO w/ someone too btw! The only one i really play though is RO lol, but i am open to anything. U should post in the MMO thread we got going. (!) o/

Edit: I think it would be fun to catch up with some old friends over coffee or something. o/ Maybe that is something you can try. \o/

This post has been edited by Magical_RuNE_Knight2001: Nov 12 2012, 04:36 PM

[Resource Dragon]

I used to play Runescape, but have since stopped because all the friends I had on there quit.

And Worms Armageddon? No way. You can't not love the worms series...


What platform for worms?

[Holder]

My personal suggestion would be to avoid Facebook, that place is horrible and would only make you feel lower.
Friendship can be hard to form when it's instant conversion, I've been there a few times and not known what on earth to say.
I'm not much of a forum poster myself any more but I do have a few personal messages back and forth with people now and then, I find that a calmer approach - especially at first.

Heroes of Might and Magic III - That game! I spent years on that, I've never been able to get it working on my recent machines though. Gotta ask what your favourite Town was? I loved the Dungeons -Beholders and Medusa's were brilliant!

[X-M-O]

Aw... Strawberry! O_O
Just be careful about finding guy "friends" that take advantage of your situation when you are only wanting a friend, because they are usually after more.
(Not trying to be sexist, but you know that not everyone has your best interest at heart and there are a lot of insensitive pricks out there. If you don't feel as though they are caring for you properly as a friend, then you know they have something else on their mind.)

[Strawberry]

@Magical

Added you!

I'll play any MMO actually. As long as my computer runs it and it's free. :3

@Resource Dragon

I have Worms on the PC! Steam!

The worms are ADORABLE.

@Holder

One of the reasons I used FB was for my friends back home, now that I'm moving back... I might not use as much - only for chatting. *shrugs*

Conflux was my favorite faction by the way. AWESOME.

@Exy

Yeah, I've had a few of those already. ._. I recently got rid of them, actually. They just... *sigh*

@Everyone

Thanks for the support! I do honestly feel the lonely bug, though. I'm starting to want someone special again. D= GAH. I'm pathetic.

[X-M-O]

@Exy

Yeah, I've had a few of those already. ._. I recently got rid of them, actually. They just... *sigh*

@Everyone

Thanks for the support! I do honestly feel the lonely bug, though. I'm starting to want someone special again. D= GAH. I'm pathetic.

Yeah, I know what you mean... I'm single and I'm happy this way, at least until I find that one guy that isn't going to take advantage of me or stalk me around campus/town (yes, that's happened to me several times before). I have lots of friends to keep me happy, but I am usually too busy to feel lonely. If my parents aren't keeping me busy, work is, and if neither are keeping me busy then I'm here or playing other games or writing or drawing or just watching whatever Netflix has. ><

If you are wanting someone special again, don't go for the secretive type unless you want to eventually feel hurt from some lie they kept up.
There are some really nice guys out there that don't take advantage of you and are genuinely interested in a relationship that could possibly go "further", but wasn't their intention from the start.
Just remember, if it sounds too good to be true, it likely is. =]
And of course, you could always chat with me about these things (I sometimes care too much about people getting hurt in relationships, so I err on the side of caution).

[Magical_RuNE_Kni...]

@Magical

Added you!

I'll play any MMO actually. As long as my computer runs it and it's free. :3

kool, sounds good! : )) and dont worry, i like my stuff free too.

@Everyone

Thanks for the support! I do honestly feel the lonely bug, though. I'm starting to want someone special again. D= GAH. I'm pathetic.

Np. : ) And hahaha, i dont blame u. XD i've never been in a relationship myself, but i think it just becomes an environment ur used to.

..If I were you, I'd agree with XMO though and suggest that you wait. Especially since you are a bit vulnerable (sounds like a disease, lol) and especially since you are a bit uncomfortable being on your own.
These two things combined might put you at a bit of a risk, for getting into unlikeable situations in the future. You may want to wait a bit and clear up your emotional and/or mental state.
You might end up in a relationship with yes, someone who is a douchebag, simply because you feel a bit of a dependancy towards having a significant other. You may already even be experiencing some of these feelings of dependancy. (?)

It might help u to look at why u want to be in a relationship. Or why u first got in one, and if that reason has changed since.
It might also help to consider finding some sort of hobby u can grow into, or maybe even volunteer, or yes, get together with some old friends.

I think the aim for you is to find a way to fill that psychological void, with something as meaningful and that can divert your attention.
:^)

[Shaddow]

This topic is kind of making me depressed...I don't know why I am still reading it.

I have been misunderstood as one of those guys before...and it feels like all these things are directed towards me....maybe it's just impossible for guys to be friends with girls? I don't know, I have lost a lot of friends and maybe even potential partners, because they always seem to misunderstand my intent or I say something stupid. Kind of sucks, you know?

Anyways, I'll stop hijacking your topic now.

[Strawberry]

I'm one of those girls that hates being alone. XD And even single. Yes, I know, weird.

I am pretty darn cautious about my men now - given my horrible experiences about them. ._.

Exy, we can talk about relationships whenever! It would be awesome.

Shaddow. Uh... how could this be directed at you? I don't understand.

Anyhoo. I'm not going to purposely search for a special person, but if one comes up... then... Hmmmm... >>;;

I'm weird. ;;

[Magical_RuNE_Kni...]

This topic is kind of making me depressed...I don't know why I am still reading it.

I have been misunderstood as one of those guys before...and it feels like all these things are directed towards me....maybe it's just impossible for guys to be friends with girls? I don't know, I have lost a lot of friends and maybe even potential partners, because they always seem to misunderstand my intent or I say something stupid. Kind of sucks, you know?

Anyways, I'll stop hijacking your topic now.

Ah, im sorry if i offended u, dont feel depressed..
I think we just meant it as a general thing. Like we all know there're some bad people in the world, i think u know that too, and i dont think u meant it on purpose or for any malicious intent. (Now this sounds like a cop show, lol) i hope not, anyway. (?')

i think that of course guys can b friends w/ girls though.. : O i have a really awesome friend whos a guy, and a number of other guys that i just see as friends. Some are 15 lol, and i could never picture us in a relationship.. >_<' it prolly depends on the guy/ girl, i guess.

I know what u mean about the misunderstanding thing, though. I find if im too nice/ interested in someone of the opposite sex, it usually starts turning into something else.. Sometimes even when i just smile/ look at them/ give a reply, which sucks...

[X-M-O]

Rune has it right, it's not everyone that is a "bad" guy, and we certainly wouldn't have meant you, Shaddowval (I don't think any of us know you that well anyway, lol). ^^

Also, Rune is right again about it depending on who you are (in relation to being able to have someone of the opposite sex as a friend versus always making it turn into a love interest). Personalities are different, some people are more romantic naturally and feel that connection almost all the time with everyone and could potentially become romantically involved with anyone they meet, others are only romantically interested in a particular "type" (personality/appearance/etc.) and absolutely will only consider anyone else to be "friends-only", and then there are others (I'll call them "roaming romantics") that even try to get romantically involved with a particular "type" that absolutely will not see a romantic interest in a roaming romantic, which causes the roaming romantic to feel as though they can never find love as they are always turned down (or when they are rarely not turned down, their relationship drags and eventually ends in heartbreak only to be repeated at a later date - these roaming romantics eventually give up and marry someone that likes their "type" and are never truly satisfied and will likely be divorced at an older age and finally marry the "type" they wanted to marry originally, but only will get that marriage because they got involved with someone 35 years younger than they are who is only interested in their money, but they ignore that because they have always wanted the "type" and they feel strongly that this person was their soul mate, etc.).
Love, it's a strange thing. =]
I can't judge people based on their romantic feelings or emotional attachments because I know that people are too different and I can never truly "be in their shoes", however I can judge a person who attempts to force themselves on someone else by using love/romantic feelings/emotional attachment as an excuse.
So as long as you aren't doing that, then you shouldn't deserve to be judged as being a "bad" guy.

Anyway, I also have many guy friends who understand that I'm not interested in them at all. Some are romantically attracted to me and ask me out often, but they remain my friends and I only go out with groups because I don't want them to get the wrong idea about me being their friends.
I am very careful not to look at them or flirt with them in any way, and I don't do it because I'm "playing hard to get", I'm doing it because I'm genuinely disinterested in them but also I don't have time for a relationship anyway, lol.
I have lost several guy friends in the past who felt that they couldn't be friends without becoming romantically involved, and those guys are now going with another crowd (some have girlfriends now, but two in particular have had and dumped at least 4 girls since last year). I know their type and I avoid them; not to say they are truly "bad", but they aren't "good" for me. =]


That's rather off from the main topic, so I'll go back to what Strawberry mentioned, lol. ^^
I'm glad you're being cautious about the relationship thing, because I know how you can feel as though you need to have someone there (it feels like you've been wearing a hat for a long time and then when you take it off it leaves you with a feeling of loss - if I can describe it that way), and I don't want you to be taken advantage of (someone will try, as you well know).
And yes, I'd love to talk to you more about these things, feel free to PM me whenever - I don't use any chat systems or anything, except rarely MSN, and I don't have Facebook (because I'd never have time to take care of it and wouldn't use it anyway, lol), but I'm around here a lot.

[Vexus]

Some guys should be considered lucky.

Where I live there's rarely any gamer girl or are already taken.. I'm a shy guy with not many interests I pretty much enjoy games, movies and watching some tv and anime series no sports or anything like that this leaves me quite on most friends conversation as I have no clue on what they are talking about making me the quite dude in the group.

Been so long since I used skype, still have it installed and all but don't usually leave it there as it slows the net while playing online. I'm almost always online on steam so if someone talks to me I can reply while still playing.

I love mmorpgs but there seriously isn't the right one yet for me (Hope a good virtual reality mmorpg comes out before I die, Sword Art Online looking at you!)

This post has been edited by Vexus: Nov 13 2012, 01:50 AM